Transgender parent, now you know what are you going to do?

Admin/ August 16, 2021/ Mindset/ 0 comments

You now know your parent is transgender, but what happens now? Your thoughts and feelings will have a massive bearing on how you found out about this change. Was it a total shock or have there been gradual changes? Is your parent going for a full change or a partial change? Whatever the answers are to these questions, there are

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Your Trans Parent, Avoid A Lifetime Of Regret

Admin/ July 21, 2021/ Mindset/ 1 comments

Your parents’ end of life creates a mass of difficult thoughts and feelings in the simplest of relationships.  Add into the mix the complexities of gender identity and reassignment will make those thoughts and feelings even more complicated. I have recently cremated my trans Mum, Joan, and can honestly put my hand on my heart and say I did the

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Stress: Which do you want, the control or to be controlled?

Admin/ May 1, 2021/ Mindset/ 0 comments

Stress, distress, anxiety, tension, pressure, we all call it different things but they are all closely related. As a life coach and teacher of Developing Effective Thinking Skills, I listen to people talk about their feelings quite often and the phrases I hear most are that they: • Put it to one side, it will go away • I’m just

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Managing Your Monday Morning Blues

Admin/ April 26, 2021/ Mindset

Monday mornings can create a lot of anxiety and stress for a lot of people, but the third Monday in January is traditionally called Blue Monday, the most depressing day of the year. Why? Because many will be starting to feel the pinch financially with credit card bills and bank statements popping through the letterbox. For some, it may be

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